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🌖 IC

On 6/2: He had a renaming ceremony, attended by Shen Qingqiu and Jin Zixuan. His brother renamed him Jin Ziyao 金子瑶 and he is leaving the Jin Guangyao name to rest. 🌙 SEXUALITY & PREFERENCES: Bisexual. He has no preference for gender. No hard age preferences but he would probably like his partners to be over 18. He's a switch with top tendencies. If he is bottoming he would need to make certain that there is a level of trust established. Even with all of this sex is such a loaded subject for him that there is a 60% chance that he may cry afterward. I'm okay with most things. 🌙 PHYSICAL AFFECTION: Jin Guangyao is touch starved. He tends to be a little bit tactile in which he loves physically taking care of other people. So hair braiding and washing and just physically caring for others. If there is trust established he loves being touched as well. Though any touching that isn't his hands, or forearms would need to establish some trust first. He is also very delicate about his neck being touched or squeezed considering the way that he had died. Canonically most of the gentry cultivators don't touch him because of his birth circumstances. They wipe their cups after he serves them tea. He is sensitive about this treatment of him and is really struggling to be in a place where sexuality is celebrated rather than ostracized. 🌙 HUGGING: Only if they are friends. He may be okay with a hug without warning from a character who is younger. 🌙 KISSING: He doesn't trust easily so kissing would certainly require buildup. 🌙 FLIRTING: As long as it is done respectfully he would be amenable. He may flirt back. 🌙 RELATIONSHIPS: as of 7/8 he is in an OPEN relationship with Nie Huaisang and is only interested in friendships and friends with benefits. 🌙 PHYSICAL VIOLENCE: He will certainly fight back. Self- preservation is the most important thing to him. He is not above using any trick in the book to gain the upper hand. He once had embedded a guqin wire in his stomach in order to have a weapon at hand. Though if your character is in high authority, he may try and deescalate but will definitely plot retaliation later. 🌙 DEATH: Would prefer not to. He's died once and would not recommend the experience. 0/10 🌙 OFF LIMITS: Any mentioning of his mother being a prostitute, or him being the son of a whore will send him into a near-feral rage. Don't disrespect his mother at all. Also, incest is a trigger for him. Marrying his half-sister and being sexually harassed by his half-brother left a bad impact on him. Choking him in any way.

🌖 OOC

🌙 BACKTAGGING: till eternity. 🌙 FOURTHWALLING: No 🌙 HANDWAVING/DROPPING THREADS: Yes, But I would prefer we talk about it so we can figure out what happened. 🌙 CRAU: maybe, please ask? 🌙 OFF LIMITS: I don't have any triggers. If I have any issues I'll be sure to contact the person privately. 🌙 OPTING OUT: You can opt-out here.

🌖 FIRST IMPRESSIONS (OPTIONAL)

🌙 VISUAL: Jin Guangyao is described in the novel as being born with an advantageous face, fair skin and clean and clever features. There is a vermillion dot between his brows that marks him as a member of the Lanling Jin clan. There is a small shadow of a smile on his lips and the curve of his eyebrows at all times. He is a short king. He's a whopping 5'5" on the petite and slender side. He has light brown hair that falls to the back of his knees when it is loose. Because of his rounder face and softer features he tends to look younger than he is. He looks closer to being mid to late twenties. Though if one were to look close he has a few wrinkles around his eyes and around his mouth from smiling. Official art of him NSFW a sketch of his bodytype 🌙 FASHION: Everything he wears is meticulously pressed and proper. He also wears wedges in his shoes and likes hats that make him look taller. For now, he's wearing his Jin Sect leader robes and gauze hat, but as time goes he will try to find clothing more suitable for the new environment. He likes fitting in. 🌙 DEMEANOR: His body language is nervous and insular. He often makes placating gestures and tries to walk with an air of elegance to him. He wasn't born gentry but he tries to carry himself like it now. Outwardly he seems like he is kind, polite, and accommodating. If people move past the surface, they may notice that his smiles are really rather fake. Once he is closer, he would be slightly more inclined to show more emotions than just weather talk. He has a biting sense of sarcasm when he wants to. His voice is soft and accommodating as well. He never raises his voice unless he has to. 🌙 SOUND: He is very soft-spoken and articulate. He doesn't raise his voice. When he's angry there is a bit of coldness that his voice can take on. Here is his character song if you're interested. 🌙 SCENT: He has a clean scent and wears floral colognes, and lights floral incense, probably opting for one that smells like peonies since it is the motif of Lanling Jin. 🌙 MENTAL ABILITIES/DEFENSES: He has an eidetic memory. If something is mentioned once he will remember it. If he sees something once he can remember it as well. He is also very intelligent with a high political savvy. He is not an easy person to get a read on since he shifts himself to accommodate where he is. 🌙 MAGICAL ABILITIES/DEFENSES: His cultivation is low, and a hodgepodge of other sects abilities, since he was mostly self taught. But he does have some magical abilities, like creating talismans, wielding, and flying on his spirit sword Hensheng. 🌙 PHYSICAL ABILITIES/DEFENSES: He isn't the strongest fighter because of his low cultivation, but what he lacks in strength he makes up with in cunning. He is not above using tactics that will lull his opponents into a false sense of security and then stabbing them. Self-preservation is his highest priority. He is very flexible as well. He is very good at household things, like cooking and cleaning, and has a love for administration. ORIGINAL CODE CREDIT

Jin Guangyao 金光瑶 (In game: Jin Ziyao 金子瑶, birth name: Meng Yao 孟瑶)

Age:Mid 30s

Gender: Male

Orientation: Bisexual

Species:	Human
Availability:	Available for Friends With Benefits mostly. Relationships will require a lot of build up.
Turn-Ons:	Being treated like a person, Praise, Kissing
Turn-Offs:	Being made to feel weak, Anything to do with prostitution, choking, VR or altered state things.
Other:	Jin Guangyao is the son of a prostitute and any mention of him being such or talking of his mother in a negative way is a quick way to getting stabbed. He needs to be safe in an environment, dub-con and non-con situations are out for him.
OOC:	If you aren't sure about something feel free to ask.

Yes

(♥ Indicates fave.)
✔ Praise/Worship = receiving ♥♥♥
✔ Anal = Giving (receiving = needs trust)
✔ Dominant roles
✔ Kissing ♥♥♥ (needs trust)
✔ Begging
✔ Biting and bruises ♥
✔ Blades (needs trust)
✔ Bondage ♥ (Giving=yes, recieving= needs trust)
✔ Blindfolds;
✔ Bodily secretions
✔ Cages, confinement
✔ Chastity, virginity
✔ Clothing
✔ Competition
✔ Costumes
✔ Crossdressing
✔ Cuddling ♥♥♥
✔ Dirty talk (No mentions of prostitutes though)
✔ Domination and submission
✔ Drug, alcohol use
✔ Edgeplay
✔ Discipline
✔ Endurance
✔ Exhibitionism
✔ Feathers, fur, velvet, silk ♥
✔ Fighting, wrestling
✔ Fisting
✔ Flexibility, contortionism ♥
✔ Fisting
✔ Food
✔ Gags, silence
✔ Gender play
✔ Hair pulling ♥♥♥
✔ Handcuffs
✔ Hands, fingers ♥♥♥
✔ Hurt, comfort
✔ Immobilization, mummification
✔ Jewelry
✔ Latex, rubber, leather
✔ Leashes, collars (giving)
✔ Licking
✔ Masturbation
✔ Messy ♥♥♥
✔ Mirrors
✔ Multiple orgasms
✔ Multiple partners ♥♥♥
✔ Multiple penetration
✔ Negotiation
✔ Oral fixation, oral sex ♥♥♥
✔ Obedience
✔ Orgasm control, denial
✔ Pain play
✔ Pervertibles
✔ Phone sex
✔ Photography, videotaping
✔ Possessive, leaving marks ♥♥♥
✔ Power play
✔ Public
✔ Rimming
✔ Ritual
✔ Rough sex
✔ Rubbing, grinding
✔ Scratching
✔ Sensation play
✔ Service ♥♥♥
✔ Sex toys
✔ Sexual exhaustion
✔ Size difference ♥♥♥
✔ Spanking, paddling
✔ Suspension
✔ Strip tease, exposure
✔ Teasing
✔ Temperature play
✔ Tickling
✔ Vehicles
✔ Voyeurism
✔ Water
✔ Wax
✔ Writing
✔ Xenophilia
✔ Praise kink ♥♥♥
✔ Pegging
✔ Bathing; grooming ♥♥♥
✔ Magic ♥♥♥
✔ Mental stimulation; memory share (needs trust)

Maybe

◌ Dub/Non-con (ask first)
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◌ Bloodplay (Needs trust)
◌ Body worship, fetishization;
◌ Body alterations, injuries (ask first)
◌ Bloodplay (Needs trust)
◌ Altered state of consciousness
◌ Anonymity
◌ Authority figures (Needs trust)
◌ Breeding, in heat
◌ Gore
◌ Coercion, blackmail (ask first)
◌ Electricity
◌ Emotion manipulation, altered mood
◌ Consent play
◌ Flogging, whipping, caning
◌ Consent play
◌ Medical play
◌ Objectification
◌ Humiliation, degradation
◌ Somnophilia
◌ Tattoos

No

(* Indicates a character-specific No)
✘ Bathroom stuff
✘ Choking*
✘ Incest*
✘ Branding burning scarring*
✘ Adultery, cuckolding*
(He has negotiated boundaries in his current OPEN relationship, because of the nature of this place.) ✘ Age difference, ageplay
✘ Breathplay*
✘ Orgy, decadence*
✘ Orientation play
✘ Piercings, needle play
✘ Snuff, necrophilia*
✘ Prostitution*
✘ Sounding
✘ Taboo*
✘ Vore

Code by Yuff